Men and Women

Do you agree or disagree with the author (who is Japanese). Please explain why in your blog.

I actually don't know if it's true that men have been having "Renai Ken-o Sho," or girls don't know what men are thinking any more because I don't even try to think what men are thinking. I'd rather think that it depends on each person, so I think it's hard to define uniformly how men think of women, and vice versa.

It may be true that girls expect their boyfriends to call them or buy them gifts and some guys would think there is no profit to be gained. Also, girls may complain if their boyfriends didn't give them any gifts on their birthday or Christmas. They will give a birthday gift to their boyfriends or chocolates on Valentine's Day, but I don't think they do that because their boyfriends would complain if they didn't. However, their boyfriends may do that because girls would get upset if they didn't. Considering this, I can accept the idea that girls are hassle. However, I think there are some reasons why many girls are like that. They may expect their boyfriends to call them, and that's because they feel anxious if their boyfriends didn't call them once in a while, yeah, most girls know that love relationships are not secure. By the way, although the author said the reason why relationship-security is low now is because guys don't have passion to get close to girls, Ithink relationship-security is low anytime no matter how men are. I think guys are also anxious, but I believe that girls are more afraid of being jilted by their boyfriends, and that is why they expect the boyfriends a lot in order to cast aside the fear. Giving gift could mean that their boyfriends care about them. They might consider that if their boyfriends forget about their birthday, that means the boyfriends forget about them. Girls are anxious of that magnitude. Those things could be burdensome for guys. However, those are not always true. There are also girls or guys who give gifts just because they want to see their boy/girlfriens' smile, and there are couples who call each other often just because they want to lieten to their voice. That is ideal to me.